Who am I?

Hi there,

My names Alexis, I am a pansexual cis gender female. I have a lovely wife with whom I share 3 children with. Starting to write my first blog post right now has me feeling like this has been so long overdue. I’ve had this small notion in the back of my mind for a few years to start a blog and share what I have to offer. I finally feel ready and I am at a point in my life where I feel like this is going to help me just as much as I aspire to help or make an impact on you! I’ve spent most of my life feeling like I don’t fit in anywhere, my personality has just always felt so much different then anyone else that I’ve known. As I have gotten older that hasn’t changed and it has affected many relationships in my life as well as other factors of course. I’m finally here writing this today because I’ve realized that there just might be others out there like me or that are simply looking for insight on situations that just don’t have much about them on the internet or in general.

I keep a personal journal but doing a blog feels like a calling for me, i can’t seem to pinpoint an exact reason why i’ve decided to go public with my blog because i have a multitude of reasons. The two biggest reasons being: knowing i could leave some kind of impact on my readers lives and the second reason is you are helping heal me! Doing this is helping me be vulnerable within the depths of my mind & life in a way that won’t jeopardize my mental or physical health. While also having the honor to share it with all of you beautiful individuals!

Free spirited mom blog is about a multitude of things that happen in life including but not limited to:

– Everything about being an Exotic Dancer

-Mental health (depression, anxiety, OCD)

– LGBTQIA/Polyamorous marriage

-Life with 3 small children

-The trials & tribulations of being in a two women relationship in a deep red state while also being apart of the LGBTQIA community. (I am pansexual while my wife is transgender &I am being brutually honest here but this our reality everyday for the rest of our lives)


-Frugal living

There is so much more i want to go over in my blog but these are just a few of the topics i plan to cover often. I am someone who likes to go with the flow on a lot of things in life(less stress right?) and this is one of those times for me! I hope you enjoy my blog as much as i love writing it!

Until next time,

Alexis ❤

PS. Thank you for taking the time to read my blog and what it is about whether you decide to continue to stay tuned or not! I love and appreciate every human being here no matter where or who you are!